GET OUT OF THE HOUSE...

....AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE!!

I learned this fundamental rule from Mystery, the man behind The Mystery Method. Getting out of the house is probably the biggest change you could do if you want to improve you're social skills with not only women but people in general. I know it's common sense but some guys just don't get it cause it's that simple. Try to go to as many social gatherings as possible, whether it be a club, lounge, bar, any niche club on campus, you name it; as long as there's people around you who you don't normally surround yourself with, you're at the right place.

So if it's a Friday night and you find yourself watching Korean dramas or anime on Youtube, you need to get out of the damn house! I know it's a scary world out there but you will never make progress unless you get out of your comfort zone; this is particularly true with Asian guys in general, since once we don't have to put ourselves out there, we feel comfortable and content with ourselves, but by not going out and leaving your comfort zone, there won't be much progression...

So get out there!! Make as many friends as possible (hopefully with benefits) and enjoy yourselves gentlemen! I'll continue posting advice/tips on you're growth in the world of dating/seduction =)

Transforming The Asian Male from Chump to Champ!

This is the purpose of my blog gentlemen....


It's no secret that many men have trouble in the field of dating and seduction, but let's face it, ASIAN MEN HAVE IT THE WORST!!


This is due to many factors:


1. Media





This poster of television show Heroes pretty much says it all. If you're familiar with the show, than you definitely know how our boy Hiro Nakamura is portrayed. The media for some reason doesn't like to portray Asian males as strong, confident, or sexy. Instead, we're portrayed as geeky, shy, and unattractive. Let me ask you a question: when was the last time you ever heard of an Asian man as a sex symbol? I havn't.

2. Family



Asian children are brought up a whole lot differently than your typical American families. Asian families stress only a few things: Money, Education and MONEY. I can hear my father's rambling in my head right now....."IF YOU DON"T DO GOOD IN SCHOOL, NO BODY GOING TO LIKE YOU, YOU BECOME A BUM".



3. Style



Simply put, we don't have any. Walk around your average college campus and you'll see what I'm talking about. There's just no sense of fashion for us, just blend in and nobody will say anything.



I know it's hard to accept but sadly its true, we are at an disadvantage. But you know what? I say FUCK THAT. Fuck the stereotypes and what people say, because no one is a victim unless they allow themselves to be by making excuses or ignoring the cold hard truth. I'm going to show you how to go from this:




To this: