The Fundamentals of INNER GAME

I decided to use a picture of MMA star Norifumi “Kid” Yamamoto because I feel that he embodies what it means to have “inner game”, not just because he fights for a living, but the guy is a legitimate badass, in and outside the ring.

So what does it mean to have inner game? Well, typically inner game incorporates several aspects of confidence, strength, and experience/wisdom. Some of the guys that I feel that have mastered this well are guys like David DeAngelo and Hypnotica. I suggest you check some of their stuff out as it will certainly improve your inner game.

Now you’ve probably heard women say that confidence is sexy; well, it IS! Picture two scenarios of two guys of equal looks and style, except that one guy utilizes eye contact when he speaks to women, and the other one doesn’t. Now which one do you think would get better results? The first guy of course.

Asian guys for some odd reason find it hard to make eye contact; I’m not saying that ALL do, but for the most part, especially the ones that I’ve met, struggle with this. This problem may be cause from family issues, as it is sometimes disrespectful to look directly at your parents in the eye, especially during disciplinary practices by the Asian parent.

So develop your inner game as it will be the fundamentals to everything you’ll learn from now on; without it, the “techniques” or “routines” will have no bearing whatsoever.

College Scene

When it comes to women and dating in college, there is a certain amount of calibration that needs to be set in order to get results. Being a college student myself, I understand this concept quite well.

I suggest checking out this eBook called "Conquer your Campus" by Mark Redman and Christian Hudson if you really want to get the college game down. Basically, gaming at a club or bar as opposed to a college campus is a little different, but the one thing that is always going to stay consistent is inner game; without it, your inevitably going to crash and burn. Think of inner game as the foundation to everything, because no matter where you are e.g. college, bar, club etc., your going to need to have the fundamentals of inner game perfected.

After reading "Conquer your Campus", I must say that a lot of the material makes sense. Most of the material in the eBook emphasizes being social, and I definitely agree in a college setting, you need to be as social as possible without looking like your trying too hard. The key is to be natural, which a lot of PUA's emphasize as being the ultimate goal. Get out there, join some clubs, meet everyone and enjoy your years in college!! We live once baby, let's not waste anymore time!